How Do I Share My Faith, Without Being Weird?

by Scott Harris on June 02, 2025

We tend to make sharing our faith more complicated than it really is. We imagine awkward conversations, forced Bible verses, or someone shutting us down before we finish a sentence. But sharing your faith is not about having a perfect script or being a spiritual salesperson. It is about sharing your life in a way that points to Jesus.

It begins with how you live. A life centered on love and grace is often the loudest witness. When people see patience in how you respond, kindness in how you treat others, and forgiveness when you have every right to be bitter, they are drawn toward discovering what makes you tick. They may not be able to name it at first, but what they are seeing is Jesus shining through you.

Jesus said, "Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven" (Matthew 5:16, NIV). Long before people hear the gospel from your mouth, they often see it lived out through your actions. Living with grace does not mean you are perfect. It means you are genuine, honest, and anchored in something deeper.

Sharing your faith is not about having a perfect script—it’s about sharing your life in a way that points to Jesus.

When the time comes to speak, start with Jesus. Not religion. Not politics. Not everything that is wrong with the world. Just Jesus. You do not need to have all the answers. What you do need is your story. Tell people how Jesus met you, changed you, or is still changing you. Talk about how He gave you peace when everything around you was falling apart or carried you through a season when you felt like giving up. People can argue with your theology, but they cannot argue with your experience.

And if someone asks you a question you do not know how to answer, it is okay to say, "That is a great question. I am not sure but let us explore it together." That honesty builds trust. People are not looking for experts. They are looking for authenticity. When you are willing to learn alongside them, it shows that your faith is alive and growing, too.

Also, do not underestimate the power of listening. We often think sharing our faith means we must do all the talking, but listening opens more doors than speaking ever will. When you truly listen to another's pain, questions, or struggles without judgment, you earn the right to speak into their story. When you speak, remember this: "Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect" (1 Peter 3:15, NIV).

Please, just be normal. Be yourself. You do not have to quote a dozen verses or turn every conversation into a sermon. Speak with love. Walk in humility. Let people see that your faith is not just something you believe in but Someone you follow.

Finally, remember that sharing your faith is a process. You are planting seeds. You might not see the results right away. That is okay. The Holy Spirit does the work of changing hearts. You are called to live faithfully, love boldly, and speak when God gives you the opportunity.

So do not overthink it. Pray for open doors. Stay available. Keep showing up with kindness. Let your life speak, and trust that Jesus will do the rest.

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